Gender Neutral Posing
Check out these posing tips that will help keep your client comfy!
1. Pronouns Matter
Know that one saying?
“Don’t ASSume things?”
Pronouns apply here.
It’s such a small thing, but it means the world—taking the time to ask for pronouns shows you care. That’s why it’s part of my contact form. It lets clients know they’ve chosen a photographer who values their identity. And hey, if you ever slip up, don’t stress—just acknowledge it, apologize sincerely, and move forward. Building trust starts with these thoughtful moments, and they make all the difference in creating a welcoming space.
2. Creative Prompts for Authentic Moments
Activity-based prompts bring out natural, genuine reactions and make sessions more fun. They spark creativity and allow your clients to express themselves. Something as simple as asking, “Can you walk toward me this way?” removes gendered expectations and encourages freedom of expression. Remember, simple ideas often create the most meaningful moments—sometimes less really is more.
3. Traditional Gender Roles are Dead
Let clients lead you!
Let’s leave those outdated “guy/girl roles” behind—your clients will thank you. Same-sex couples especially are tired of the question, “Who’s the guy and who’s the girl?” Instead, let your clients lead the way. Focus on characteristics like height or energy to guide your posing suggestions. While directing, keep language neutral—try “one person stand here, the other look this way.” Even if there’s a mix of masculine and feminine presentations, always ask what feels comfortable for them. Trust and collaboration create the best results!
4. Open Communication = KEY
Being open and honest with your clients builds trust and ensures you’re aligned with their vision. Taking the time to discuss what they want—and what doesn’t work for them—can transform the whole experience. Keep in mind, they hired you for a reason. If something doesn’t feel right, they may look elsewhere for their next shoot. Your role is to listen and collaborate, making them feel heard and respected every step of the way.
Last Pro Tip: MOOD BOARDS
Bring on the mood boards! Gather ideas for colors, locations, and poses. Present a variety of options and check in with your client. If something doesn’t fit, adjust until it feels right. Flexibility is key to finding what works!